make whole world your friend

normally, friends on emails are like opportunists, they will ask u silly sex related questions without having any real relevance, like one of my my email friend has asked me
how can he become a good fucker,
imagine someone asking to learn swiming without getting into water.
iwould like to tell him to get married and experiment as much on fucking,
u cannot experiment on swiming on land.
pre or extramarital relations dont give u enough scope for experimentation(and thus the satisfaction) to become a good fucker.
good fucking cannot be done alone, it has physical, emotional, spiritual, social satisfactional aspects and there is also a responsibility to satisfy your partner on these many aspects and may be many other aspects.

these many friends dont bother to care of a friends psychological sensitivity, because they have nothing to loose
real( life) friends talk to u in ur language greet u in ur culturaly accepted greetings,
imagine ourselves not being able to make more than 2-3 friends in school and college, we were always found in company of only those 2-3 friends, when do u imagine can we make the whole world our friend.
we as a child and human being have been told very scarcely to go out of way,even suffering pains, to help some one unacquainted, accept and respect other peoples' beliefs.
different class, creed, religion, language, culture, symbols and rituals are all manifestation of one common eternal music, eternal creation, the eternal truth.
like the rain water flowing through many gutters and rivers all go to the same ocean.

i would like to invite u friends to create a world free of addictions of alcohol and tobacco, gutka etc
this is possible- i have some practical experience
in rural areas and also in cities people spend a lot of thier income on addiction. this is a real waste of money for those who spend.
of course others and govt. even earn their livelihood
but wrong is wrong,
addiction gives kick, relieves us of stress, give enjoyment elate us,
but calculate the health, ecnomic,and social loss it creates!!!
do u think we can/should help people come out of this problem???

today i got angry on a tribal women with a 7-8 mths child, came to my clinic for fever.
the child was having a huge head, obvious hydrocephalus.
i was angry on her neglect on not taking the child for treatment.
i asked if u dont have enough money why dont u go to govt medical college.
she said what will we eat if we go even for the free treatment,
we have no one to take care of the small farm goats and hen if we get the child admitted and stay at the hospital.
i had no answer.
is it easy to have another child than to get the ill-one treated!!??